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eve's avatar

this was so rich + beautiful (and I hope you feel this community rallying around you as you hopefully get the credit + payment you deserve for your work)

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Valerie's avatar

eve! i love you and thank you! i did get the payment in the end 😌

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eve's avatar

the crowd goes wilddd

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Tim's avatar

ahhh fuck you and this post, switching to being a paid subscriber

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Valerie's avatar

Tim! made my day, and absolutely fuck this post 😁💕

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Lila's avatar

A+ to me you are the coolest for being so real

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Valerie's avatar

Lila 💔 i’m blushing

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Weronika's avatar

maybe its slavic immigrant uncoolness syndrome™️ and if so im definitely a part of it<3

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Valerie's avatar

we must unionize

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Chiara's avatar

my god I love the way you write. you are cool in my eyes, internet stranger :)

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Valerie's avatar

wow thank you Chiara 💜💜

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sarah cucchiara's avatar

brilliant as always! i love you and i love this

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Valerie's avatar

love you so much <3

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Mónica Bozinoski's avatar

This essay is so beautiful and brilliant, what a treat to read it 🫂

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Valerie's avatar

thank you! 🤍

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𝓜 ✶'s avatar

Absolutely love this post 🥰

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Valerie's avatar

thank you so much my love

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izzy's avatar

Goddamn it's like you're in my head sometimes (xo a mid-twenties y/o)

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Valerie's avatar

🤍🤍

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Ella Wu's avatar

Feel so much better about myself after reading this. Very cool thank you

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Valerie's avatar

you are cool ella 💕 thank you

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2wicebitten's avatar

i love this and the way you write. i rly resonate with this desire to be cool that you talked about, this desire to be wanted, to be affirmed, and its comic imperfection and impossibility.

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Valerie's avatar

thank you so much <3 beautiful words! same here

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Elizabeth Grace Martinez's avatar

coolness is extremely overrated.

you deserve to be paid for the article you wrote. full stop.

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Valerie's avatar

thank you Elizabeth <3

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Ioanna Sofra's avatar

Coolness is far an inadequate word to describe what you create here..✨✨

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Valerie's avatar

im smiling at my screen like an idiot

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Mahrukh Siddiqui's avatar

I really really really love how you write!!!

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Valerie's avatar

thank you! 🤍

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Second Glance's avatar

That was a really cool post :)

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adiba's avatar

can’t believe someone i think is one of the coolest people on the planet thinks she’s not cool enough?!? the way you write is absolutely brilliant i’m in love

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